Showing posts with label musings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label musings. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

sweet, sweet boy

i love this boy.
dylan is my child.  my middle child.  i know what it feels like to be in the middle.  when we became pregnant with little eli, i realized that we were consciously making dylan a middle child.  some people don't think that birth order influences a person but i disagree.  i think that your place in a family is how you see your place in the world - it shapes who you are.  i'm mindful of my little middle guy and i worry about him.

he has been blessed with so many talents and i have felt from the day he was born, the power of his spirit and the intense love that his heavenly father has for him.

for whatever reason, dylan seems to have had the hardest time adjusting to our move west.  since school began he has had struggles with anger.  he isn't violent towards his teacher or any of his peers, but he has a hard time when his frustrations boil over.  he has stomped his feet, slammed his hands on the table, ripped his art, and cried.  it's not a regular thing but it is a pattern of behavior we have seen repeated a few times over the last few months.

we have discussed his need for self-control.  he looks at us with those dreamy eyes, filled with tears and says, "i don't know...i just get so mad."  i've wondered how can i help this sweet, sweet boy?

we have made a conscious effort to make scripture study and prayer a regular part of our morning.  we've had awesome weeks and then we've had other weeks where monday was the only day we got it all in and the rest of the week just dissolved into homework & extra-curricular mush.

after his last incident at school, we decided to recommit to the scriptures and prayer.  i told dylan that if we make sure to start our morning off right - feasting on the scriptures, and asking for god's blessing - it might help his days to not be so frustrating.

each night, when he returns home, if he has a sticker on his calendar from school it means he had a good behavior day.  each day he'll hop off the bus and let me know that he got a sticker.

last night he quietly came to my side and whispered in my ear, "mom, the scriptures are working."

Sunday, August 19, 2012

Sunday Six - 8/19/12

1. it has been ONE WHOLE YEAR since my last sunday six.  in theory it seems simple...just write down six things each week to sum up your days or muse about anything really.  i have often thought on monday morning, "i forgot to do my sunday six" and just never got around to it.  i think i'll try harder now that we're finally settled in colorado.  but don't hold me to it...

2.  my thoughts on colorado so far:  everyone here is very nice and dare i say *gasp* nicer than the southerners of north carolina.  don't get me wrong - i met a lot of nice people there - but here, everyone greets with a handshake and i have yet to have an awkward conversation.  i'm not sure how to explain it - i think that people in NC are generally very guarded.  our tragic NC neighborhood experiences are a perfect example of that.

i'm in love with our new ward.  again, don't get me wrong - we spent many wonderful years with our ward family in NC, but i feel more at home here than i ever did out there.  there are a lot of young families which is nice, but i've quickly found myself in the middle.  i'm not having babies any more but i'm not old enough to have teenagers yet and that's ok.  i have a calling now - sunday school teacher to the 12/13-year-olds.  it's a class of 5 boys with a reputation that precedes them.  earlier this year they glued their teacher to her chair.  i will have to have my guard up but am very anxious to get to know them better.

i'm in love with our new neighborhood. it's a strange feeling though, knowing we're only in this house for a year or so, to want to be involved but not get too settled.  i definitely would consider purchasing a home here.  i love the location - close to parker and close to convenient shopping near highlands ranch and centennial.  i had intended on down sizing when we began our search but the rental market here was so inflated!  there were a lot of crummy homes, in bad condition, asking ridiculously high prices.  we were lucky enough to get into this house before it was ever advertised online and i feel grateful to be here.  it's definitely a lot to keep up and hopefully that will get easier once the boxes are all put away.  we live very close to a park and the big kids can ride their scooters down and play with the oodles of kids.  it's like a dream come true after the solitude of the NC home.  i feel very blessed and my kids are happy.  it's awesome.

i'm in love with our new schedule!  no bus stops for us in the dark this year!  the kids get on the bus at 8:15a and return home just before 4:00p.  after that there is just enough time for playing at the park, homework, classes, dinner and prayers.  before school the kids are able to do their daily routine.  it used to be their "three things" but now it's their "four things", since we have the laundry room on the main floor.  they make beds/tidy rooms, get dressed, brush teeth, and sort their clothes in the laundry room.  we even have time for scriptures and prayers before leaving to the bus.  it's heavenly!

3.  marissa update:  marissa has decided to get back into dance.  she's taking a ballet class and tap class - both an hour each.  she's in 5th grade with mrs. giraldes and having a blast so far.  the bus picks up just around the corner and i think she's loving being one of the older kids.  her school goes thru 6th grade but she definitely has a height advantage over any older students.  we will (hopefully) be getting her into an orchestra class, playing the violin or cello.  she'll do that before school twice a week.

4.  dylan update:  dylan has had the hardest adjustment with the move i think.  he has been out of sorts from time to time, but seems to be doing better now that school has started.  there are plenty of boys in the neighborhood and on the bus and he's started Tae Kwon Do and really enjoys it.  we will definitely get him back into the piano this year and hopefully a sport or two in the fall.

5.  eli update:  eli is awesome.  there is just no two ways about it.  he's got the best personality and he's always listening in and commenting on conversations.  he likes calling himself "chewbacca" and currently loves playing with trains and dump trucks/diggers of any kind.  the neighborhood we live in has a lot of developing going on so he can wake up in the morning and watch the whole production from his bedroom window.  he LOVES dylan and is always trying to get him to wrestle with him.  the other day eli's head made contact with dylan's face.  he got him pretty good and i think dylan realized that eli might be his little brother but he can definitely hold his own.  i love eli's sweet smile and his non-stop commentary about everything.

6.  phil update:  the week we moved here we got the great news that phil would be getting promoted to technical director.  it was a shock - we were not expecting it at all.  it is an answer to prayer!  he will no longer have to travel to the race track each weekend but will have the luxury to pick and choose his races.  that means more time at home, more time with family and the opportunity to serve in the ward.  he has been called as a ward missionary and we had the chance to meet the sweet little elders serving in our ward.  they're both canadians!  we had a good laugh about that.

phil's latest adventure involves a puck, a stick and big sheet of ice.  that's right - he's playing hockey now!  he's been putting in time at the rink and will start a class in the coming weeks, and then start league play.  it's a good outlet for him and i personally love hearing about his adventure learning to play a new sport.

now i just need get myself signed up for something!  but where will i find the time for that!

Wednesday, May 02, 2012

happy 30th!

today is my kid brother's birthday - 30 years!

happy birthday JJ.  when i grow up i want to be just like you...
...achieving my goals and following my dreams!  you have a beautiful family and i'm proud of all you have achieved.  make it the best year ever!!

(love this old photo of JJ & mari!)

Friday, April 20, 2012

it's her birthday

today is my sister's birthday.  

she is one of the most important people in the entire universe to me.  

she was my maid of honor...

she was there when i delivered marissa...
and i was lucky to be there when her sweet bruno was born...
we've bonded over our boys...
(this is one of my all-time favorite pics by the way)
 and our hair...
 ...and she's just the best sister a gal could have. 

 happy birthday nan!!  
love you and miss you!
see you soon!!

Saturday, January 21, 2012

iphone gems

some of the latest...
dylan cracks me up!
marissa was a finalist in the science fair at school but didn't place.  she was disappointed but we were thrilled with her hard work!
eli and his buddy max
eli has started demanding he sleep with dylan.  i found them like this the other night.
marshmallows and a scooter - what else can you want!?
not my proudest moment....i rear ended my friend lee at a stop light.  there was no damage to her car, thanks to a bike rack that put a lovely hole through my bumper.  doesn't look too bad right?  $3400 later...thank you GEICO!
the kids got some cool souvenirs from my mom and dad's trip to the holy land.
i love this picture of my parents at philip's graduation dinner.  mom, you're a saucy babe!
notice anything weird in this picture?  besides the fact that my kids are sleeping pretzels...?  i was holding my phone up in the air to get a birds eye view and right as i was about to snap this picture, something flew through my peripheral vision below and in front of me.  i quickly looked to the left to see what it was and nothing was there.  but check out the picture...see that cotton ball moving through the picture?  and the orb around it?  i kid you not - something flew through the room.  my dad thought it had been a reflection from the hallway.  we tried to recreate the scene and there was no way it came from the hall.  it was so bizarre but i'll take the watchful care of heavenly angels any day!
eli + sacrament meeting x desperate mother {equals} iPhone.  eli was snapping away some photos in church and my mom snuck into one.  when i get my phone back there are hundreds of photos of eli, from the top lip up.
furniture shopping at furniture row, posing by the furniture row racing car.  get it?
eli LOVES to play in this box.  hours of endless entertainment.

Thursday, November 17, 2011

iphone gems

here are some more iphone gems:
this summer my sister and i were shopping when i found this lovely swim suit.  they make these because people ACTUALLY buy them.  unbelievable!
 my clean car obsession now involves help from these monkeys.
 if you know philip well, you'll see the humor in this award....hee hee
 we celebrated mario's 60th birthday sombrero style!
 dylan's allergy testing continued this fall.  he's now receiving regular allergy shots.  hoping that will do the trick.
 well it's official - marissa is a north carolina tar heel.
 i found this poor baby bird on the driveway.  his mommy bird was freaking out and clearly knew her baby was no longer in the nest.  we tried to build a little make-shift nest and put him back in there but the next morning little bird had died.  poor little buddy.
 eli has been on a hunger strike lately.  sometimes a little nutella sandwich does the trick though.
 eli thought these glasses were pretty cool...
 but these ones were cool too....so he just wore both!  while he ate a nutella sandwich.
 peanut butter chocolate cake.  one word: YUM.
 dylan finally lost is first tooth.  he was so excited!
 4th grade has been kind of tough for marissa...she just looked so peaceful sleeping one night - i had to snap a picture.
 marissa's new glasses.
 we had a little lesson about stealing things the other day.  i kept finding little round magnets around the house that i knew weren't ours.  the mystery was solved when dylan confessed.  i made him return the magnet and he wrote his teacher this letter.  i bet teachers have a great stash of funny stuff...i thought this note was particularly well written...for a thieving 6-year-old.

Saturday, October 01, 2011

oh the lips!

i'm amazed at how well my two-year-old can work an iphone.  he's not the only one - everywhere i go i see little people on their little gadgets.  i admit that i've used it to get through my shopping trips with less drama and there are actually a lot of really cute educational apps out there.

eli has the cutest concentration faces though.  here are some that i snapped one day while he was engrossed in the "peek-a-boo forest" app.  oh those kissy lips!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Tuesday, August 09, 2011

click next!

if you like blogs then you probably use a reader to keep track of it all for you.
if you too use google reader, i'm posting this because it has literally changed my life!
you may already know about the NEXT BUTTON...but if you don't, you soon will! it allows you to scroll through your blogs (the real, live, actual page!) instead of reading the color-less, boring reader updates. check it out - here is how i got it set up:

NEXT BUTTON

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

retirement

i'm retiring.

well, i mean i'm retiring my blog. i don't mean the WHOLE thing, but the cute little designers that make my blog look cute had to switch to a new server blah blah blah....and it wouldn't be a big deal except for they have retired my design. sad.

thank goodness for quick-screen-capture - so i can preserve my vintage glory for years to come. bye bye sweet, purple, cute blog. hopefully the next one will be cute too. any good suggestions for downloads?

**update**
my new template is called "colorful ornate balls of joy". me likey.

Saturday, January 01, 2011

welcome 2011

i can’t believe it’s a new year again! today is 1/1/11. i generally don’t set resolutions and that’s for a very simple reason. if I don’t set them, i won’t be disappointed when i don’t keep them – and let’s face it, most people (myself included) don’t. not having expectations is one of my life rules…and it has helped me cope with a husband who is constantly everywhere BUT home, and in turn helps keep me calm and able to manage life with our three kiddos and the constant motion they are in.

so this year I’m going to “resolve” to try…

I’m going to try to be a better friend.

I’m going to try to let things go – the things that cause me anguish that really aren’t that important.

I’m going to try to have a better attitude about my church calling – I’m already exhausted.

I’m going to try to spend more time reading real books and less time playing word games on my iPhone.

I’m going to try to get another blog book finished and printed.

I’m going to try to stop wishing that my awful neighbors move away.

I’m going to try to master my new camera – hopefully take a class or two.

I’m going to try to keep up with my physical therapy so my tennis elbow will go away.

i feel optimism for the future…and gratitude for the present.

cheers 2011, cheers.

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

wow 400!

i didn't realize it until today but i'd completed my 400th post. i feel pretty good about that. i've been blogging for four years now. i really need to get my blog books caught up. has anyone tried the books through blogger?

happy birthday to me. 400 feels good.

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

32 and it's all good

32 has been a delicious year so far...

thanks krista for the cake...dottie for the other cake...ann for the brownies...lee for the cherries and yogurt!
as you can see, i have some pretty 'sweet' friends.